Love and Fate...or Hate?

Why do the minds of men tend to function so differently than the minds of women? Or is it just my mind? Is it only because of my particular way of thinking that I find myself butting heads in all of my relationships? I think that most of the struggle in relationships comes from miscommunication. Its so easy to get angry at your significant other when they dont see things from your eyes and understand exactly what your feeling and what you want. I know first hand that I get automatically frustrated when my boyfriend doesnt say what I want him to say or do what I expect him to do. Isn't it peculiar how we unknowingly have expectations in our mind for everyone? And we want them to live up to the standards we set. The interesting thing is that these standards are unspoken, invisible rules. Women make up lists of qualities, traits, behaviors and different expectations in their heads for men. And a relationship, in a sense, or dating, rather, is almost the time for men to search and discover exactly what to do and how to act. It is a natural thing to do, I am not bashing anyone. But I find myself getting angry and starting a fight when I am upset about something and my boyfriend doesn't understand automatically...I realize he doesnt understand because I do not explain or communicate anything to him! Lets give these guys a LITTLE leeway..

But hey, I still think men should be able to read my mind and understand me automatically. Aren't I right, ladies?